Saving money and spending brain power

As much as I am passionately committed to working with children, and plan to continue to do so for forever, there are times I feel like entire days go by when I have not engaged my brain in any way.

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As a person who is equally passionate about learning, this is one of the a harder sacrifices for me. To compensate for the hours of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and “Go Fish”, (or Gold Fish, as Jace insists on calling it) that my day is composed of, every month I choose a topic to research and a skill to learn that I can use to improve myself, my home keeping, or my baby raising. Currently, my topic is once a month shopping.

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Now, I am still very new at this. There is so much more I want to learn. But this concept so intrigued me, I don’t want to wait until I’d researched the living daylights out of it. I want to dive in and continue to learn as I go. There is a great deal of prep one must do in order to succeed, as you can well imagine. But I have a hunch that doing this could potentially save a LOT of money!

Here’s why:

The more frequently you go to the grocery store, the more likely you are to impulse-buy unplanned items. From the book America’s Cheapest Family:

  • “Shoppers making a ‘quick trip’ to the store to pick up a few specific items usually purchase 54 percent more than they planned.”
  • “Forty-seven percent of shoppers go to the store three or four times each week.”
  • “Consumers graze at the grocery store, with impulse buys making up between 50.8 and 67.7 percent of total purchase

Yikes! That being the case, it stands to reason that fewer trips to the stores would prove to be a big money saver! Being good stewards is one of the core values I want to teach my tiny humans, so I am really excited to get this party started! Interested in this particular adventure? Stay tuned! I’ll walk you through my experience!

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A Dangerous Business

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“It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to.”    ~ J.R.R. Tolkien

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Hello Friends! I have neglected this blog a shamefully long time but for good reason! I am in the midst of a big, huge dream-come-true adventure! And adventures – by virtue of being adventures – don’t give fair warning!

So what is this adventure, you ask? Well, it’s hard to believe you haven’t heard because I’ve been telling the WORLD! But just in case you live under a rock, I am getting licensed to foster and ultimately adopt!

This may be a new adventure, but it’s a lifelong dream. For as long as I can remember, I have known that kids were my calling! From the moment I was old enough, I worked as a baby sitter and a nanny. I have worked at camps for two years and fourteen summers. I have served as children’s ministry director, Sunday School teacher, Jr church, and Awana teacher. I have coached youth soccer and taught kids swimming lessons.  I have been a substitute teacher and tutor for years. And I was a child social worker at both Scranton Counseling Center and Kids In New Directions in Lapeer, not to mention a house parent with twelve kids at a time! Kids are just where my heart is! So this has been a long time coming!

At the end of February, when I received the news that my roommate was moving out and I was going to be the sole renter of a gorgeous apartment with two empty extra bedrooms, I opened the drawer where dreams are kept and this one unfurled before me. There was a mountain or two to climb, but now the path is relatively straightforward and I am traveling it with alacrity!

I have until the end Spring to prepare my home and transform it into a Haven of Hope! I will be opening my home to infants and children from birth to four years old. My employer is allowing me to bring ‘my kids’ with me when I nanny. In fact, they are very excited for me! It will be busy! I put Kid #1 on the bus every day and in the fall, I’ll be handling drop offs & pick ups to preschool twice a week for Kid #2. That will allow me time for running ‘my kids’ to the many appointments and such that are required for children in care.

You can’t even imagine how excited I am!! Believe me when I say I know exactly what I am getting myself into! Will it be easy? No. Nothing worth doing ever is. Will it be worth it? Absolutely. There are children in crisis all around us. If we don’t care for them who will? This is not an adventure for adventure’s sake. This is a calling to meet a need. I am sure of my calling. And I am also sure that those whom God has called, He also equips.  That being said, I need your prayers! The lives of children are at stake. I want to create a place that is safe, secure, loving, peaceful, welcoming, nurturing, imagination-inspiring, happy, fun, and a greenhouse for learning.

This adventure… this is the adventure of a lifetime!!

The Heart of Your Home!

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If you’ve been cleaning along as we go, you have a few successes on the books and it is now time to tackle the kitchen! This room is often Grand Central Station, and big or small, open concept or closed off from the rest of the home, the kitchen can become a clutter catch-all if we aren’t careful. With a little elbow grease and some TLC, you can reclaim your kitchen as your happy place! Let’s begin!

We are going to use a slightly different approach with this room, as emptying its contents is just not realistic. Let’s start by washing the dishes and getting them put away, or by running the dishwasher. You are going to need to see all your dishes at one time, so get them clean and put away. Then it’s time to seriously scrub your counters. Completely clear a counter, and get scrubbing! For my weekly cleaning, I use disinfectant wipes. But for today, any all-purpose cleaner and a scrubby sponge will work. Be sure to get the edges, corners, behind the faucet, where the sink attaches to the counter, etc. Work your way around until all your counters gleam.

Completely clean any counter top appliances. Fill the sink with hot soapy water and put your stove burners and knobs in to soak. Wipe down the cupboard doors, drawer fronts and hardware. If you need to clean the oven, wait until last. Clean the stove top, and all around the outsides of your oven. Clean the outside of your refrigerator. Don’t worry about the interior for now. Clean any areas between the appliances and behind them. Clean the stove burners and knobs and put them back on.

As you come across mail, important papers, school calendars, coupons, etc, group them together outside the kitchen until you can sort them. Right now it’s time to stay focused on cleaning.

It’s time to get inside those cupboards and drawers. Empty the contents of every non-food cupboards and drawer to one central spot. Now get into those spaces and vacuum out the crumbs and wash the interiors before tackling the contents. When that is done, get a cold water bottle, your give away/throw away boxes, and pull up a chair! It’s time to sort and purge!

Any utensils, cups, storage containers, dishes, cookware or appliances you do not use, want, or need, put them in your boxes right away. Only put back what you truly need and love.

Set up stations in your kitchen, based on the kinds of tasks that take place there. Cooking utensils, pot holders, pots and pans should go near the stove. If you have the space, set up a baking station. Trust me, once you can stand in one spot and reach everything you need to make a batch of cookies, you are going to be SOOO happy you did this! Glasses and cups should go near the sink. Coffee cups go near the coffee maker. A coffee station and a lunch making station are other time savers! Continue until everything is put away.

I used to have a ‘junk drawer’ in my kitchen, but currently I don’t have the drawer space for one. I repurposed a plastic tool box type container for the batteries, matches, rubber bands, spare hooks, etc that used to live in my junk drawer. I keep that in my cleaning closet now. I don’t miss it taking up valuable kitchen space at all!

Once everything is back in it’s cupboard, drawer, or discard box, it’s time to dust, shake the rugs, wash the windows, sweep and mop the floor. If you have kitchen linens, curtains or rugs to launder, now is the time. If you need to clean your oven, now is the time.

Take a good look at your kitchen space. Do you love it? Is it a happy place? Are there updates you need to make in the future? This is the heart of your home. Make it a place you and your family love to be.

Celebrate a clean and fresh kitchen! What a big job this was! But doesn’t it feel GREAT to have it clean?? We should celebrate by going out to eat! Ha!

Stay tuned for the Kitchen part 2… cleaning all the food storage areas!!

Your Oasis!

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Is your bedroom your oasis? Would you like it to be? The definition of oasis: serving as a refuge, relief, or pleasant change from what is usual, annoying, difficult, etc. I think we all want that definition to apply to our bedrooms! And we can! It just takes making an effort! Are you ready to work a little magic? Let’s get started!

Begin by emptying the room! Everything moves out from on the bed, under the bed, off the dresser tops, nightstands, etc. For now, leave the clothing AS LONG AS IT IS OUT OF SIGHT. Remove the rugs and curtains if they need to be laundered.

It’s time to clean! Get that happy music going and get going! Start a load of laundry and get the bedding washing. Start at the top of the room and work down. Dust. Clean the ceiling light fixture or fan. Dust those window sills and baseboards. Dust and wipe down all the furniture. Sweep. Vacuum. Mop. Disinfect the door knobs and light switches. Make sure you clean under the furniture completely. And don’t forget to move the bedding from the washer to the dryer!

Now it’s time to put your items back but really keep in mind the end goal: creating an oasis! Ask yourself what you NEED in this space before you fill it with clutter. For example: on your end table you need a clock, a lamp, a box of tissues, and perhaps a candle or framed photo for decor.

Choose your favorite sheets and make your bed! Add a few drops of your favorite essential oils to the foot of your mattress. If you need new linens, now is the time to add them to your shopping list.

If you can’t avoid storing things under the bed, be sure to store them in a tote box that you can seal. It’s a habitat for dust bunnies under there!

Although we aren’t tackling the contents of the dressers today, it is time to declutter and return to the dresser tops the items that live there. Do you have an interesting tray or dish you can display for collecting the contents of pockets? What about your jewelry? Do you have a way to store it in an orderly fashion? Now is the time to remedy these areas that can quickly become cluttered catch alls. My favorite jewelry organizer hangs in the closet. The more you store out of sight, the more peaceful the room will be to the eye. Out of sight, out of mind is for real!

When you are finished take a good critical look. Is it comfortable? Is it cozy? Is it a refuge? A relief? A pleasant change? Is it a sanctuary from the outside life? Is it an oasis? Purpose now to keep it this way. Establish some boundaries. This is not an office (unless you live in a college dorm!), a laundry room, a gym or a storage unit. It is fine to use your bedroom for other purposes, but keep in mind that the more ‘stuff’ you drag in, the more stress you are adding to the environment. Wide open spaces and cleared surfaces are restful.

Enjoy your ‘new’ peaceful retreat. Next, we’re tackling all those clothes!

The Room EVERYONE Visits!

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Next up… the bathroom. That’s right! There’s no hiding this room from company! Let’s tackle this clutter magnet once and for all!

Again we’re going to begin by emptying out anything and everything that isn’t fastened to the floor! Take out the toiletries, towels, rugs, shower curtain, curtains, contents of drawers and cabinets… everything. Put these items in the hall or another room for now. If you have helpers of the tiny variety, be sure to put out of reach anything that might spray, squirt, dribble or require a trip to the ER if ingested. (This may be a great nap time task!) Once the bathroom is empty, take a good look. Now grab a bucket. It’s time to CLEAN!

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Spray everything first. Toilet bowl cleaner in the bowl, disinfectant on every other toilet surface. Let the cleaners clean and spray disinfectant on the shower walls, tub, and sink. Let those cleaners do the work and spray the mirrors and windows with glass cleaner and clean those first! Wipe the sill. Wipe down the walls, light switches, base boards. Dust. Sweep. Wipe down any drawers and cabinet shelves. I prefer disinfecting wipes for this. Wipe down the cabinet fronts. Clean out the trash can.

Now get a clean cloth and really scrub down the sink. Use a stiff brush or an old toothbrush to clean around and behind the faucets. Next use that cleaning brush and clean out the shower/tub, working from the top down. I usually roll up my pant legs, take off my socks and hop right in. Make sure you don’t leave behind any gunk or build-up. Vinegar is fantastic on cutting build up on shower doors.

Last of all, really scrub that toilet. Don’t forget behind the tank. Now it’s time to mop the floor. I use 1 cup regular ol’ vinegar to 1 gallon of water. And I add a few drops of my favorite essential oil. 

Take a moment and have a cool drink of water. Doesn’t it look and smell fantastic? Get those towels, rugs, curtains, and shower curtain in the laundry. Put on some cheery music. Now put back ONLY the items you used this morning. It’s time to sort and purge all the rest of the ‘stuff’!

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Let’s start by getting rid of what is clearly lived it’s whole life. Throw away anything that is expired. Anything that is dried out, crusty, or 99.9% used up. If you have partial bottles of shampoo, conditioners, or body washes… condense them. Find a cute basket or container for bath products you are saving… and START USING THEM! What are you saving them for anyway?? There’s no such thing as ‘special soap’. It’s just soap. Use it. Same goes for body spray, bath salts, and lotion. Either gift it to someone who will use it, or cut yourself off from buying any more until you use up what you have!! Trust me. Stores aren’t going to suddenly stop selling soap. It’ll be there when your stash runs out!

This sort is a time to be very honest and very ruthless in your purging. Sort your makeup, hair products, bath products, etc. Keep going until all the toiletry items are sorted. You know what you need for your routine. It’s perfectly acceptable to have a favorite brand. Let the rest go.

Go through your towels. If yours are in sad shape, put them on your list. Take the really old ones and cut them up for rags. Most people have way more towels than they need or use. Unless you don’t have easy access to a washer and dryer, you really only need one set per family member and a few extras.

Put things back in an orderly fashion. Return to the shower only the products you use on a daily basis. If you have an overabundance of bath toys, invest in an inexpensive mesh laundry bag that you can easily remove when the toys are not in use.

An over-the-door towel rod is an amazing investment. Designate one hook per family member. Color-coding towels is another great tip. Instead of buying all the same color towels, give everyone in the family a different color. Then it’s easy to determine the culprit when towels get left on the floor!

Shoeboxes make wonderful organizers! I use one clear plastic shoebox with a lid for all my first aid items and one for items I use only in the summer. You will have different categories. Divide them in a way that makes sense to you. Baby items, medicines, hair products… whatever works best. I recommend labeling them clearly. You can even decorate them if you wish!

Put your cosmetics in a clear zipper pouch so you can easily see what you are reaching for. Dollar stores often sell cute handled buckets or pails that you can utilize inexpensively. Remember to store cotton balls and cotton swabs in containers that can be closed tightly to keep them sterile. Pint sized mason jars work well. 

When you are finished putting away, think about the aesthetics. Simple, uncluttered and clean are the most eye pleasing, but a creative touch or two can make it welcoming. A colorful picture on the wall or quirky sign can add a touch of whimsy. Add a scented candle, a nice hand-soap pump, and a hand towel. Get a pretty basket, roll up your guest towels and display them.

A GREAT trick to keep this room smelling sweet: add a few drops of essential oils to the cardboard tubes of your toilet paper rolls. The fragrance lasts a long time, but is subtle… and no one will know where it’s coming from!

Replace your laundered rugs, curtains and shower curtain. If these items have lived their whole lives, add them to your list. But for now, enjoy your hard work and your clean sparkly room.

That’s two successes in our pockets! We’re gearing up for the big one!

The Gathering Place

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Let’s begin in the living room or room every one gathers (perhaps yours is your family room). Our goal in living room organization is not to create a magazine photo, but a warm, inviting space where your family will enjoy spending time together. Are you ready? Let’s begin! Turn on some happy music. Light a candle. This is going to be fun, I promise!

Start by removing everything that isn’t furniture. If you have a dining table or adjoining room, empty the contents of your living room into it. Everything moves out except furniture, rugs, curtains. Now take a look at the space minus stuff. What do you do in this room? What family activities take place here? Is the tv the main focal point? Do you want it to be? Does the furniture layout “work” for what takes place in this space? If not, now is the time to fix that! Move the furniture, create a conversation area, or whatever you need to do. Don’t stop until you are content with the layout.

Before you move anything back in, it’s time to give this space a thorough cleaning! Dust from the top down. Start with the light fixture or ceiling fan and work your way around the room dusting. Dust the window coverings, dust the sills and blinds. Wash the windows. Wipe down the furniture in the room. Vacuum under the sofa and chair cushions. Throw washable curtains, rugs, pillows or blankets in the washing machine. Shake or vacuum your rugs. Sweep. Mop. Vacuum.  Take a drink break and revel in the clean and sparkly results!

It’s time to put things back IF and only IF they truly belong in that space. Do not move back any knick knacks or decor items you don’t love. Are there books no one will ever read again? Is there a throw pillow that is so uncomfortable no one will use it? Are there items that never should have been living there in the first place? Do not put them back! Instead throw them away, donate them, or put them back in their proper home. Whatever is called for.

Now is the perfect time to take a closer look at what you are returning to the space. Do you have a cute basket that can hold the throw blankets? How about using a small basket to contain all those remotes? Do you need a container for toys that get brought in? Look around your home for items you can repurpose to help organize your space!

Take the trash out. Put the donation box in your car. Water your plants. Light the candles! Take a photo of your finished project! Celebrate your hard work! Every finished project fuels you for the next! Enjoy the journey! We’ve only just begun!

What’s Next?

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Look at you!! You’re well on your way to decluttering your home! If you’ve removed a box a day of items to trash and a box a day of items to donate, you should be able to hear your house sighing in relief by now! Keep going with the clutter removal until you can’t fill a box with items to trash or donate! That’s when you know you are done.

The next step is fairly simple. Find a notebook and a pen and take a tour of your house. That’s right. Start outside your front door and go through each and every room. But see it with fresh eyes. Pretend you’re a realtor coming to put the house on the market. Or pretend you are coming to see it as perspective buyers/renters. Notice everything. What is the atmosphere saying to you? What do you want it to say? What is the purpose of each room? Are you currently using it to it’s best purpose? What looks worse than you thought it did? What looks better? What do you want to get rid of, move, repair or paint? Write down your impressions so you can come back to them. I recommend each room should have its own separate page. When you finish, sit down and read over your notes.

Now get a drink of water and a box of trash bags. Choose your peppiest playlist and pop in those earbuds because it’s time for tour number two. This is actually going to be a high speed chase!! Start at the front door and move speedily through your house again, throwing away any trash you see… newspapers, water bottles, a dead potted plant…Empty the waste baskets and the overflowing recyclables bin. Go as fast as you can. Don’t stop to move furniture or rearrange. Just get the trash O-U-T!! Take those full bags to the dumpster or trash can or curb. Enjoy your efforts and get a good night’s rest! The next step in getting organized is going to be quite the adventure! 

How To Get Organized!

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I get asked all the time… “How do I get organized? Where do I even start?” Are you ready for the BIG secret? Are you? Here it is:

  1. Find two big boxes.
  2. Fill one box with items to donate.
  3. Fill one box with items to throw away.
  4. Repeat daily for 30 days.

And that’s the truth of it! Once you and your house can breathe again, I will tell you what to do with everything that is left. Until you clear out some stuff, your attempts to organize are actually suffocated by too much stuff.

Clear some space. Don’t keep anything you don’t really need, want, or love. Let go of items that don’t improve your quality of life. If you’re serious about getting organized, start today! 

Ready… set… GO!

Happy Endings

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Do you have an evening routine that creates an atmosphere of peace and rest for you and your family? Happy mornings begin the night before!

We all experience the temptation to stay up late to enjoy alone time at the end of a busy day. But staying up too late robs us of badly needed sleep and sets the scene for a chaotic morning.

Here are some tips for ensuring your day ends on a happy note!

  • Begin your evening routine early. Play soft, peaceful music. Turn off bright lights and choose candles and lamps with a softer glow.
  • Make a ‘No Screens’ rule after bath time. Baths and books can serve as a signal to kids’ brains to wind down and get ready to sleep.
  • Earlier bedtimes for kids. The busier the day, the more sleep they need!
  • Spend half an hour preparing for the next day. Make lunches, lay out clothes, set up your launch pad, put your coffee pot on a timer, set the breakfast table.
  • Call a halt on housework or other projects and spend half an hour truly relaxing. Have a cup of tea or cocoa, read a book, journal, take a hot bath. Wind down.
  • Do your final routine the same way every day. Lock the doors. Turn off the lights. Blow out the candles. Wash your face. Brush your teeth. Set your alarm. Get in bed. The familiarity signals our brains it’s time to sleep.
  • Keep screens out of the bedroom. Keep bedrooms dark, quiet, not too cold, not to hot. Use a fan if you need ‘white noise’.
  • Go to sleep at the same time every night. This is especially key if you have trouble sleeping or falling asleep.

Start creating good habits tonight! Good habits are like dominoes. One good habit leads to another… and another… and another…

How do YOU end the day on a happy note? Share with us!!

Happy Start, Happy Day

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Are your mornings a chaotic mess? Here are a few simple tips for a happy start!

  • Prepare the night before. Make lunches, lay out clothes, set up the coffee on a timer, pack your work bag, set the breakfast table. Designate a launch pad for keys, purse, backpacks, etc.
  • Get up thirty minutes earlier than you do now. Trust me, the thirty minutes of silence and personal time are far more valuable than thirty more minutes of sleep. Enjoy your coffee. Read your Bible/devotional. Pray. Watch the sunrise.
  • Turn on soothing happy music while everyone is getting ready. I did this once on a whim, and was shocked at the impact it had on everyone’s mood.
  • Keep the TV off. There’s nothing more jarring in the morning the cartoon characters hitting each other over the head, or worse, the news.
  • Set a series of alarms on your phone. End nagging forever! For the boys I nanny, I set an alarm for getting dressed, for teeth brushing, putting on shoes, putting on coat, and getting out the door. I leave these alarms on my phone and it takes a second to turn them all on. I literally don’t have to give instructions at all. When an alarm goes off, he moves to the next task on his own.
  • Leave the house five minutes early. You never know when you’re going to get stuck behind a school bus! And the buffer zone keeps you from experiencing that panicky feeling of running late.

What is YOUR secret for a happy, chaos-free morning? Please share with us!!